Bulimia facts

Learn more bulimia facts and treatments from this informative bulimia article. The author also looks at the complexities of a sucessfull bulimia nervosa treatment and explains several key bulimia facts:

Eating Disorders - For the Family - by Carolyn Costin MFT

Focus on feelings and interpersonal relationships - not on food and weight. Family members are often the forgotten members, especially other children. It is important that they talk about their feelings.

Do not let the eating disordered family member disrupt the entire household. The family should go on with their lives as normally as possible.

Do not allow the eating disorder family member to shop, cook or feed the family. Do not let the eating disordered family member dominate the rest of the families eating patterns. In nurturing others, eating disorder sufferers are denying their own need for food. Families should go on with normal eating patterns. These details will need to be worked out with the therapist.

Set limits in a caring, reasonable, but firm manner.

Help the family show affection and appreciation for each other. Underneath disordered eating is a lack of self-worth; thus unconditional love goes a long way.

Work on how to avoid power struggles and find alternative ways of dealing with problems as they arrive. Let the therapist and/or physician deal with "highly-charged" issues such as weight.

Realize that there are no quick solutions. Demanding change, and/or berating the eating disordered family member will not bring about change or a positive result. Be patient.

Avoid having the eating disordered family member make too many decisions about food and other issues. Control is a big issue that must be addressed in therapy. One can not attempt to over control the eating disordered family member. The therapist can help balance out these issues.

Parents will need to examine alternatives to their current behaviors (i.e. yelling, pleading, etc. Family members should write in journals, write letters to each other, call the therapist, and write down situations that they need assistance with and provide to therapist and family sessions.

The family needs to talk about all kinds of issues - not just focus on the problems or the eating disorder.

Featured Resource for Family Members:

Your Dieting Daughter: Is She Dying for Attention? by Carolyn Costin, M.A., M.F.C.C. published by Brunner/Mazel, New York, New York (1997).

Carolyn Costin is an eating disorder specialist and the director of the Monte Nido Treatment Center: A Residential Treatment Center for women suffering from anorexia, bulimia, and exercise addiction http://www.montenido.com

Carolyn Costin is an eating disorder specialist and the director of the Monte Nido Treatment Center: A Residential Treatment Center for women suffering from anorexia, bulimia, and exercise addiction http://www.montenido.com

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